One Proud Momma Part I

Our little man has surprised me yet again! Three weeks ago Nick told me he wanted to join the football team. My mouth literally hit the floor I was so stunned. When the words came tumbling out of his mouth, I kept repeating in my head over and over “don’t seem too excited, act like it’s not a big deal”. I was excited and it was a HUGE deal because Nick hated football when he played a few years ago. But I played it cool, told him I thought it was a great idea and promptly sent the coach an email stating I didn’t care if Nick ever hit the field for a game but that I would be eternally grateful if he would let him practice in full gear with the team. To be honest, I think the coach was as shocked as we were. I know that it was his (the coach) goal all along for Nick to join the team but I think he had given up hope after the season officially started.

Since that night three weeks ago, Nick has been faithfully attending practice, standing proudly on the sidelines at games with his teammates and basically strutting around our house like a peacock. He even got to play in the “5th quarter” at their game the other night. The first play he was standing in the wrong place, BUT he sacked a kid. The next two plays he sacked two guys and went running after the QB. My heart swelled with pride!

We are not sure why he had a change of heart but I can assure you of this, we are so proud of his decision. And it was his decision. We never pushed the subject, we didn’t drop subtle hints, just told him that we supported him no matter what he chose to do. I think he needed time to figure out the game, see that it was more than just a bunch of sweaty kids knocking each other down. And I think as “assistant coach” he felt a bit isolated from the camaraderie and wanted to be part of a team. Filling water bottles is an important job but it doesn’t get you in there with the boys. I guess it’s kind of like being in the same company/platoon, you just build relationships with people that are doing the same thing.

So, over the past three weeks I’ve been able to observe him in his new role. After the games he is adamant about joining the team at whatever restaurant everyone is going to. He walks a little bit taller, he is coming out of his “geek” shell and is becoming more confident in who he is! What a great thing this has been to witness. Our little man is busting out of his shell and leaving his comfort zone. It’s amazing to watch him challenge himself when in the past he’s been content to just stay in his world of video games and books.

I love our little man! He is an awesome kid and I’m so proud that he made this decision all on his own!!